WHEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!! Yesterday, I was having a crappy morning.....L and I fought...bad! All because I asked if V could come visit me on my first lunch. (Which was poor judgement on my part) I left for work on the motorcycle....MAD! Not a good combination...Me on a motorcycle mad. I WAS going to leave w/o my helmet, but L mad me put it on anyway. So I get to work, and the day drags on and on....L and I argue more via text. Then, she appologizes.......
Wait...What?
Thats right...She appologizes. She said she was experiencing some jealousy about me and V. THEN....She offers to have V over to visit me for lunch, with her. I tell her no...She insists...I re-itterate my NO....and she does it anyway.
Well, the day wanes on, and suddenly, it's time for me to get the heck out of there....I got off EARLY! It just so happened that I got off at the same time I usually have my second lunch. So, L and V show up....and we all go and have another picnic type lunch. We talked.....a LOT! Finally, V asks me what L and I are looking for in a relationship....
I explain that we want to find someone who is ok with BOTH of us. and with BEING with both of us. Someone who is OPEN to the idea of us all living together in the future....But that that was not a requirement. She said "ok". I explained that L and I ALWAYS play together when we meet new people, and if that was not something that was ok with her, I understood, but that we would likely never evolve into a sexual relationship. She again said "ok".
Then, I explained to her that I wasn't just looking to get laid. I told her that I wasn't sure if she had noticed that I was highly attracted to her or not, but that I had tried to keep my attraction to a minimum because this time around, I was trying to take things SLOW, so L and I could develop the RELATIONSHIP first, instead of the SEXUAL relationship first. I asked her if she had noticed this or not. She said she had wondered, but respected me for it.
Then I asked her the same question. Her answer? She wanted the same things we did!
I wanted to stop time and do the happy dance with L!
V said she likes her privacy though, and for now, LIKES going home, and then laying in bed and saying "Gosh...I really miss them." when she thinks about us. (This little phrase made L and I feel all goose pimply and warm inside)
So, for now...we are all just working on the relationship, going on dates together, and building the friendship that is so necissary for a long term relationship.