Weve both had people on the "off limits" list, theres quite a few people i cannot be with and know he would be angry if i was talking to them this same way.
Not long after he was having convos with her about private matters, me, and saying how much he missed her and her body etc. We talked about it and after some time understood why some of the convo had been hurtful.
Few months later, she checks in again to see if still a "no go". He shares some more and then agrees not to. Etc.
Again, months later she checks in again. Although the convo is brief, he again shares private things (about being bored, sexually off etc) and how she has the perfect body.
In general, we are both respectful and care how the other feels etc, but like anyone we make mistakes and know both of us have baggage.
Evie, Redbill: actually, did not sneak his phone but thanks for the assumption and useless accusation and implication. We are both open with our phones and he was/is well aware of my reading just as he is able to do with mine.Yes, but we usually don't come right out and accuse people of that.