I think the safer sex section is worth a WHOLE SEPARATE PAGE. How do you define sex? Some people consider any genitalia touching sex, some only consider PIV/PIA sex. Some people don't actually think of oral sex as sex. Are you aware that many times when people get a standard STD panel that doesn't include HSV? Are certain STDs just straight up dealbreakers for sexual contact and others not? If there is a condom break or a slip, what is the expectation for notification and also how long until testing, back to barriers?
Safer sex stuff is a whole detailed conversation and a single bullet about condom use or fluid exchange doesn't really cover it even slightly. So I'd consider writing all of that out in detail as a way to document that all parties are on the same page about how each person practices safer sex.
I also think that a lot of the items on that list are not so much rules as just expectations of conduct? Sort of, this is my expectations for how we treat each other. So you may want to be more clear about what things are explicitly rules that everyone is agreeing to, and what are just "let's treat each other kindly" expectations.
I second the idea about what constitutes sex and cheating. The OP says fantasies are fine, romantic feelings are fine... just as long as there is no sex. What is sex? (Let's not assume male/female sex only.)
Frottage (dry humping)
Penis in mouth
Penis in vagina
Penis in ass
Penis between breasts, etc.
Vulva, clitoris in mouth
Fingers, hands, feet, toes etc., on penis or on or in vulva/vagina
Fingers, fist in ass
Breast play:
- outside clothing
- in underwear (t-shirt/bra)
- (fingers only) on bare skin
- sucking on breasts/nipples/chest
Closed-mouth kissing
Open-mouth kissing, no tongue
Open-mouth kissing with tongue
Fondling the buttocks
Use of a toy on the vulva and/or inside vagina
Use of a toy in ass
FF "scissoring"
Watching porn
Browsing dating sites, flirting or having sexy conversations
Flirting, talking about sex in real life
Going dancing (in clubs, maybe while drinking, or even just taking dance lessons)
Cybersex with unpaid willing participants
Cybersex (cam girls or boys) involving payment
Unlawful molestation of minors
Mutual masturbation
Voyeurism
Exhibitionism (photos or irl)
Public displays of affection (holding hands, arms around each other, full body hugging, kissing on the mouth, sitting with your sides fully touching, laying a head in a lap, sitting on a lap)
Kinky activities that might not involve genitalia, but can be arousing (a short list)
Rope ties (artistic shibari)
Restraints
Dom/sub power exchange:
- age play
- diet restrictions
- sleeping rules
-clothing/hygiene/grooming rules
- masturbation limits
- chastity devices
- phone or text scheduled D/s "dates"
Pet and pony play
Water sports
Foot fetish
Various kinds of impact play (leaving marks or no marks?)
Collars, leashes, handcuffs
Various kinds of household service
Certain kinds of language and nicknames
Cages/confinement