Hello, In could write a long story about my life but in essence, I am in a LTR with my GF and we are both open to some degree. I have been in the kink, alternative and mainstream scenes.
Regardless of how the subject is being approached (without any advances), I am yet to find a decent woman willing to consider being in a poly relationship in any way shape or form.
The very few people I see in the various scenes are mostly either friends with occasional benefits (swingers/threesomes) and/or very broken people.
There is also usually one in the couple which is not fully accepting of the situation or making biiiig concessions.
I have approached the subject with people from the mainstream also and for the most part, it's a totally unacceptable idea for most single women.
Even women that have been single for a long time and even horny to some extent would not want to go through the trouble of doing a couple.
You could say my GF and I are simply not attractive people. It could be possible but I can say we have rather above average looks from what we are told.
The idea is that I feel women want to fall in deeply love and be swept away and have their prince charming all for themselves and then build a family and then their little castle. Which is fine.
While sex is important, it is not a end in itself but an outcome of their dreams and beliefs.
I do see more people in adultery, even women. In a hope to obtain their own prince charming.
That being said, I have almost given up in trying to complement with life with another stable partner. It looks like an impossible task. Threesomes are very risky in terms of STD's.
Perhaps some would say to stop looking. I have friends that have been single all their lives, they have stopped looking a long time ago..rather giving up might be a better term.
Regardless of how the subject is being approached (without any advances), I am yet to find a decent woman willing to consider being in a poly relationship in any way shape or form.
The very few people I see in the various scenes are mostly either friends with occasional benefits (swingers/threesomes) and/or very broken people.
There is also usually one in the couple which is not fully accepting of the situation or making biiiig concessions.
I have approached the subject with people from the mainstream also and for the most part, it's a totally unacceptable idea for most single women.
Even women that have been single for a long time and even horny to some extent would not want to go through the trouble of doing a couple.
You could say my GF and I are simply not attractive people. It could be possible but I can say we have rather above average looks from what we are told.
The idea is that I feel women want to fall in deeply love and be swept away and have their prince charming all for themselves and then build a family and then their little castle. Which is fine.
While sex is important, it is not a end in itself but an outcome of their dreams and beliefs.
I do see more people in adultery, even women. In a hope to obtain their own prince charming.
That being said, I have almost given up in trying to complement with life with another stable partner. It looks like an impossible task. Threesomes are very risky in terms of STD's.
Perhaps some would say to stop looking. I have friends that have been single all their lives, they have stopped looking a long time ago..rather giving up might be a better term.