After two years of introspection, yoga, therapy, reading all the books, then leaving a 25-year marriage, I'm as ready as I'm gonna be. Poly makes so much sense to me. Besides all the normal relationship skills, it seems the critical question is "Can I love this person AND share them?" I think yes, and I fully respect those who say no. I think I'll be a fish to water. It will take that first partner to walk with me over the starting line before I learn to run.