Girl_in_Red
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Hello everyone,
I'm looking for book tips for someone who is new to polyamory and has their doubts about it. They are currently seeing someone who is in a polyamorous nesting relationship and they don't see that working out long term for them. Quote: If I fall in love with you I'll have to break up with you.
They are my metamour and while I'm not really interested in having these conversations with them in person I would still like to support my partner in figuring out how to best navigate this situation and educate that person on their options.
Now I'm not entirely sure about what I could recommend. "Ethical Slut" is a bit outdated and way too much about sex in my opinion. "Opening up" seems to be too focused on a couples perspective and could be contra productive. "More than two" appears to be a better option but could also backfire, also I couldn't recommend this book without being transparent about the whole situation with Franklin Veaux and that's a horrible first impression if you ask me. Now the best option in my eyes is "polysecure" but that might be not an entry level book so to say.
Therefore my question: has anyone another good idea?
Thank you so much in advance!
Greetings
Girl in Red
I'm looking for book tips for someone who is new to polyamory and has their doubts about it. They are currently seeing someone who is in a polyamorous nesting relationship and they don't see that working out long term for them. Quote: If I fall in love with you I'll have to break up with you.
They are my metamour and while I'm not really interested in having these conversations with them in person I would still like to support my partner in figuring out how to best navigate this situation and educate that person on their options.
Now I'm not entirely sure about what I could recommend. "Ethical Slut" is a bit outdated and way too much about sex in my opinion. "Opening up" seems to be too focused on a couples perspective and could be contra productive. "More than two" appears to be a better option but could also backfire, also I couldn't recommend this book without being transparent about the whole situation with Franklin Veaux and that's a horrible first impression if you ask me. Now the best option in my eyes is "polysecure" but that might be not an entry level book so to say.
Therefore my question: has anyone another good idea?
Thank you so much in advance!
Greetings
Girl in Red