I had a fetlife acct and deactivated when I got with my ex boyfriend since I’m also exploring BDSM lifestyle, I was his sub :/ … sighs..The only active ones I know of currently that have people into alternative relationships on them are Feeld, Hinge, Tinder (mostly casual hookups), and Plenty of Fish. OKCupid used to be good, but I'm not sure how good it is nowadays.
You can also look on Fetlife. It's like Facebook for kinky people. It's for networking and forming communities, and eventually you might meet someone that way. Just be prepared for nude photos.
Well, now you can reactivate it, when you're ready. Sorry for your breakup. BDSM can be tricky.I had a fetlife acct and deactivated when I got with my ex boyfriend since I’m also exploring BDSM lifestyle, I was his sub :/ … sighs..
Well, now you can reactivate it, when you're ready. Sorry for your breakup. BDSM can be tricky.
did you have any luck with Fetlife before...I am in a similar situation but having explored many apps now including the ones mentioned above is that they are a time suck and money suck for not much in return. A little known secret about Dating apps:I had a fetlife acct and deactivated when I got with my ex boyfriend since I’m also exploring BDSM lifestyle, I was his sub :/ … sighs..
Still kinda checking it out, I have profiles on hinge, feeld so we will see what happensdid you have any luck with Fetlife before...I am in a similar situation but having explored many apps now including the ones mentioned above is that they are a time suck and money suck for not much in return. A little known secret about Dating apps:
about 90 percent of them are created and owned by one company that shills and pushes them your way based on your kinks and your data you've been giving away for free big tech and mass media . the problem isn't that they have our data in my opinion ( I welcome an easier search, shopping learning experience) however many companies products do not deliver or back up their claim and so the proliferation of scammers and bots online is all time highs. in any hopes of meeting for female led relationship let me knowhow please
Yes it does, been reading and checking groups out. There’s some local events/meetups in January i plan to attend in my area.I met a partner on Fetlife, and someone I grew very close to for a while and still text sporadically.
The real benefits of Fetlife is that there are a gazillion groups you can join, and once in a while there are really good discussions in some of those groups. You can find the people with whom you connect in their written word when they aren't deliberately using a dating app.
Fetlife is also excellent for local event information, frequently including poly munches as well as normal munches.