Dating app recommendations?

LunaRose

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I’ve been out of the dating scene for a while and not going to jump in yet, but wanted to ask people’s thoughts on dating apps, which ones have you used, liked, etc.

Thanks. 😊
 
The only active ones I know of currently that have people into alternative relationships on them are Feeld, Hinge, Tinder (mostly casual hookups), and Plenty of Fish. OKCupid used to be good, but I'm not sure how good it is nowadays.

You can also look on Fetlife. It's like Facebook for kinky people. It's for networking and forming communities, and eventually you might meet someone that way. Just be prepared for nude photos.
 
Hello Luna,

OKCupid and Feeld are the best-known apps by me, however they do have their drawbacks. You can try each one, and see what works best for you.

Regards,
Kevin T.
 
The only active ones I know of currently that have people into alternative relationships on them are Feeld, Hinge, Tinder (mostly casual hookups), and Plenty of Fish. OKCupid used to be good, but I'm not sure how good it is nowadays.

You can also look on Fetlife. It's like Facebook for kinky people. It's for networking and forming communities, and eventually you might meet someone that way. Just be prepared for nude photos.
I had a fetlife acct and deactivated when I got with my ex boyfriend since I’m also exploring BDSM lifestyle, I was his sub :/ … sighs..
 
I had a fetlife acct and deactivated when I got with my ex boyfriend since I’m also exploring BDSM lifestyle, I was his sub :/ … sighs..
Well, now you can reactivate it, when you're ready. Sorry for your breakup. BDSM can be tricky.
 
OKCupid is still good to find poly people. It's the only app I use. Hear that people also use Bumble, not sure if that's more for ENM.
 
Well, now you can reactivate it, when you're ready. Sorry for your breakup. BDSM can be tricky.
I had a fetlife acct and deactivated when I got with my ex boyfriend since I’m also exploring BDSM lifestyle, I was his sub :/ … sighs..
did you have any luck with Fetlife before...I am in a similar situation but having explored many apps now including the ones mentioned above is that they are a time suck and money suck for not much in return. A little known secret about Dating apps:
about 90 percent of them are created and owned by one company that shills and pushes them your way based on your kinks and your data you've been giving away for free big tech and mass media . the problem isn't that they have our data in my opinion ( I welcome an easier search, shopping learning experience) however many companies products do not deliver or back up their claim and so the proliferation of scammers and bots online is all time highs. in any hopes of meeting for female led relationship let me knowhow please
 
I met a partner on Fetlife, and someone I grew very close to for a while and still text sporadically.

The real benefits of Fetlife is that there are a gazillion groups you can join, and once in a while there are really good discussions in some of those groups. You can find the people with whom you connect in their written word when they aren't deliberately using a dating app.

Fetlife is also excellent for local event information, frequently including poly munches as well as normal munches.
 
did you have any luck with Fetlife before...I am in a similar situation but having explored many apps now including the ones mentioned above is that they are a time suck and money suck for not much in return. A little known secret about Dating apps:
about 90 percent of them are created and owned by one company that shills and pushes them your way based on your kinks and your data you've been giving away for free big tech and mass media . the problem isn't that they have our data in my opinion ( I welcome an easier search, shopping learning experience) however many companies products do not deliver or back up their claim and so the proliferation of scammers and bots online is all time highs. in any hopes of meeting for female led relationship let me knowhow please
Still kinda checking it out, I have profiles on hinge, feeld so we will see what happens
 
I met a partner on Fetlife, and someone I grew very close to for a while and still text sporadically.

The real benefits of Fetlife is that there are a gazillion groups you can join, and once in a while there are really good discussions in some of those groups. You can find the people with whom you connect in their written word when they aren't deliberately using a dating app.

Fetlife is also excellent for local event information, frequently including poly munches as well as normal munches.
Yes it does, been reading and checking groups out. There’s some local events/meetups in January i plan to attend in my area.
 
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