amomynous93
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I met my bf in decemeber. He has a wife married 4 years and I completely respect that. Problem is she's a liar, not like little white lies, like lies that had friends cutting bf out of their lives and possibly send him to jail lies. Anyway his wife and I hung out for the first time by ourselves and she just lied. She lied about when she first found out about me, she lied about them trying for a baby, she made it seem like she was kept in the dark about his feelings for me (that I was just a small bump in the road on their roadtrip). She asked (essentially) what am I going to do when I'm done with him? And what kind of person I'm looking for in the future (I'm mono and she knows.) She just belittled our whole relationship to the point where I confronted him ready to break things off (which is probably what she wanted). I have just never ever met someone who would lie about things like that. And I just cut out two toxic people this year. (still stuck living with one though)
And I love this man so much and his wife (when she isn't lying up a storm) is nice but I don't know if I can do this. I don't know if I can truly explain everything she said and how trashy she made me feel (almost as if I had been caught in the bedroom sleeping with a married man) .
Anyway they are looking at houses, and my heart and head both hurt. He says he loves me, but how are you going to let her sabotage us like that. And I was the one to reach out to her first and I thought she liked me. I get how important she is to him but she's awful (to the both of us) and I don't know if I can be apart of that forever.I'm just so confused.
Does anyone have any stories/ of dealing with a toxic meta?
And I love this man so much and his wife (when she isn't lying up a storm) is nice but I don't know if I can do this. I don't know if I can truly explain everything she said and how trashy she made me feel (almost as if I had been caught in the bedroom sleeping with a married man) .
Anyway they are looking at houses, and my heart and head both hurt. He says he loves me, but how are you going to let her sabotage us like that. And I was the one to reach out to her first and I thought she liked me. I get how important she is to him but she's awful (to the both of us) and I don't know if I can be apart of that forever.I'm just so confused.
Does anyone have any stories/ of dealing with a toxic meta?