Discovering Poly


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Hello, I’m RJ. Here to learn about poly. About me: I grew up without any siblings and I’m married in a mono relationship for about 23 years. We have grown apart past 3 years in emotional and all other aspects and currently just coexisting and coparenting and will be separating. I will share more in the appropriate sections of the forum. I’m starting out as a solo poly novice and hoping to be part of the community and learn from you all.
Greetings RJ,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

You are at the right place for learning more about poly. Simply read around on our various boards, and let us know whenever you have any questions. Sorry to hear about the falling out you have had with your spouse. It may be for the best, if it leads to both of you having the freedom to live the lives you each want to live. I look forward to reading your future posts.

Kevin T., "official greeter" :)


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