WildFern
New member
Hello y’all!!
For basic information:
I’m a 22 year old non-binary queer person! I use they/them pronouns. I live on the border of Washington and Idaho with my partner of three years and her mom. And three adorable cats.
I’m graduating college in December with a bachelors in creative writing and a minor in Gender & Sexuality studies! I practice witchcraft, have forgotten how to read for leisure, and have about 30 houseplants. I’m passionate about bettering the world around me and fighting for liberation! I suppose I would qualify as a kinky person; being a bratty submissive, but that information isn’t incredibly pertinent yet.
I’ve got some mental illness (therapy is a beautiful tool) and I’ve got some trauma, but in this economy?? Who doesn’t.
I grew up in a small, bigoted town in Idaho and have never really been able to leave my home-town-area yet. It kinda sucks here. My dream life goal is to keep being a gender-fucked bimbo and eventually just be a house-spouse who does all the laundry and the cooking and cleaning.
For interpersonal relationship information
My primary partner (Z-23) and I have been together for three years now, living together for two.
We’ve been non-monogamous our whole relationship, it was something we knew we both wanted before we also realized we were in love with each other. Things just serendipitously worked out.
Z’s mom, although living with us, does not know we’re ENM and we don’t really know how to have that conversation so we just haven’t. I think the time just hasn’t come yet.
Z’s mom is my mom now, which is wonderful because my biological family and I do not get along. I don’t speak to them and they don’t speak to me, although being in close-quarters to them knowing I could accidentally see them at any moment in public is quite stressful.
We don’t have any other romantic partners yet, as that is still something we will have to navigate, so it seems more like we’re in an open relationship where we see other people separately, usually for sex. But polyamory is definitely a goal if it isn’t already a reality.
Although technically I’ve been ENM (polyamorous) for three years now it’s still incredibly new to me and something I’m still learning about. Which is the biggest reason I’m here!
All of our found family (apart from Mom) knows that we’re ENM but none of our friends are also polyamorous so, while they are supportive, it’s not really something they can give a lot of advice on or relate too. So I don’t really have a community I can learn from and share my struggles (and victories!) with.
I’m excited to be here, excited to grow as a human and also as a polyamorous person, and am also really excited to make new comrades!
Thanks for reading & thanks for being here!
For basic information:
I’m a 22 year old non-binary queer person! I use they/them pronouns. I live on the border of Washington and Idaho with my partner of three years and her mom. And three adorable cats.
I’m graduating college in December with a bachelors in creative writing and a minor in Gender & Sexuality studies! I practice witchcraft, have forgotten how to read for leisure, and have about 30 houseplants. I’m passionate about bettering the world around me and fighting for liberation! I suppose I would qualify as a kinky person; being a bratty submissive, but that information isn’t incredibly pertinent yet.
I’ve got some mental illness (therapy is a beautiful tool) and I’ve got some trauma, but in this economy?? Who doesn’t.
I grew up in a small, bigoted town in Idaho and have never really been able to leave my home-town-area yet. It kinda sucks here. My dream life goal is to keep being a gender-fucked bimbo and eventually just be a house-spouse who does all the laundry and the cooking and cleaning.
For interpersonal relationship information
My primary partner (Z-23) and I have been together for three years now, living together for two.
We’ve been non-monogamous our whole relationship, it was something we knew we both wanted before we also realized we were in love with each other. Things just serendipitously worked out.
Z’s mom, although living with us, does not know we’re ENM and we don’t really know how to have that conversation so we just haven’t. I think the time just hasn’t come yet.
Z’s mom is my mom now, which is wonderful because my biological family and I do not get along. I don’t speak to them and they don’t speak to me, although being in close-quarters to them knowing I could accidentally see them at any moment in public is quite stressful.
We don’t have any other romantic partners yet, as that is still something we will have to navigate, so it seems more like we’re in an open relationship where we see other people separately, usually for sex. But polyamory is definitely a goal if it isn’t already a reality.
Although technically I’ve been ENM (polyamorous) for three years now it’s still incredibly new to me and something I’m still learning about. Which is the biggest reason I’m here!
All of our found family (apart from Mom) knows that we’re ENM but none of our friends are also polyamorous so, while they are supportive, it’s not really something they can give a lot of advice on or relate too. So I don’t really have a community I can learn from and share my struggles (and victories!) with.
I’m excited to be here, excited to grow as a human and also as a polyamorous person, and am also really excited to make new comrades!
Thanks for reading & thanks for being here!
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