Cabinlife2020
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( W2 is gf Hubs is hubs) heard good to do nicknames. Anyway things going good, bumps in the road at first but all smooth for now (fingers crossed) anyway right now its still hubs one night me next night W2. My question is W2 doesn't want hubs with her tonight (I think she will change her mind but she has important appointment tomorrow and is stressing to much and wants to be alone) now if W2 decides she doesn't want hubs there then he will go with me (then W2 can have him tomorrow night then me the next so on so forth just back to normal) my main question is since it would "officially" be W2 night but she gives it up can I get it on with hubs or do I respect that it was really W2 night and not get it on,
I figure since she gave up her night and then instead of saying ok Wed was W2 night but hubs with me (do to her doing) and Thurs is technically my night I get to keep him for that night then he goes with W2 for Friday which would be her night, instead I am okay with if you want him on Thursday that is fine then as stated above just back to normal one night me one night W2, although this sounds confusing makes it less confusing to me just to say okay next night is yours and we continue on like normal.
So main question is it okay to get it on I would think so (we do have the rule that today is W2 day so after 8am this morning till 8am Thursday morning hubs is W2 (in other words I don't go do quickie with him etc we respect that part) but never had a rule where the other one gives up their night if I gave up mine I would think fair rein to W2 it would be my loss giving up my night with hubs.
Thoughts?
I figure since she gave up her night and then instead of saying ok Wed was W2 night but hubs with me (do to her doing) and Thurs is technically my night I get to keep him for that night then he goes with W2 for Friday which would be her night, instead I am okay with if you want him on Thursday that is fine then as stated above just back to normal one night me one night W2, although this sounds confusing makes it less confusing to me just to say okay next night is yours and we continue on like normal.
So main question is it okay to get it on I would think so (we do have the rule that today is W2 day so after 8am this morning till 8am Thursday morning hubs is W2 (in other words I don't go do quickie with him etc we respect that part) but never had a rule where the other one gives up their night if I gave up mine I would think fair rein to W2 it would be my loss giving up my night with hubs.
Thoughts?