Hi everyone,
I am fairly new to Poly. I have had two boyfriends for a little over a month now and I am also married. I am loving being Poly! But my frustration is that when I spend the night at their house, or even at a hotel, I cannot sleep at all. I think I got maybe one hour of sleep at one of their houses. But usually I just don't sleep. So lately I have been leaving in the middle of the night just so I can sleep. I think I am making things worse though by worrying about not sleeping. Is this fairly common for some people at the beginning? I wonder how long it will take for me to get used to it? I feel like it kinda ruins things when they ask about spending the night because then I worry about sleep. And of course, I know that I am not there to sleep .... but I am starting a new job and I don't want to get sick. I need at least a few hours of sleep.
I am fairly new to Poly. I have had two boyfriends for a little over a month now and I am also married. I am loving being Poly! But my frustration is that when I spend the night at their house, or even at a hotel, I cannot sleep at all. I think I got maybe one hour of sleep at one of their houses. But usually I just don't sleep. So lately I have been leaving in the middle of the night just so I can sleep. I think I am making things worse though by worrying about not sleeping. Is this fairly common for some people at the beginning? I wonder how long it will take for me to get used to it? I feel like it kinda ruins things when they ask about spending the night because then I worry about sleep. And of course, I know that I am not there to sleep .... but I am starting a new job and I don't want to get sick. I need at least a few hours of sleep.