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victorsev

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Hello everyone. My name is Victor. My partner and I are in a broadminded relationship. We are both practising social nudists and are open minded. She has a big appetite for sexual exploration and I enjoy hearing of her sexual exploits. Feel we need to move this up to a polyamory level. Would welcome discussion with other more experienced members
Look forward to your comments
 
Hi and welcome to the forum.

Am I correct in assuming the two of you practice some form of non-monogamy now? Now you feel you are ready to take it up a notch to having loving, committed relationships with others? I suggest researching it extensively before jumping in.
 
Hello and Welcome to the Forum!

I suspect Kevin will be along shortly with a number of very helpful links.

I have an informal interest in "social nudity" (I had to check Wikipedia to make sure that didn't mean something different) but my boys do not, so my experience is limited to a few clothing optional beaches, private parties, and a trip to Burning Man.

From the bit of information you provided it sounds like you are into "Hotwifing"? And perhaps your wife is looking for a relationship rather than just a fuck-buddy?

Just be aware that there are consent/privacy concerns re:sharing sexual details about intimate moments with an uninvolved (someone who wasn't there) person, and this should be thoroughly discussed with any potential before any disclosure occurs.

JaneQ
 
THanx for the welcome

In response to both visanityo and Jane Q thank you for the encouraging welcome posts.
My wife has had many sexual relationships during our marriage all in a quest for bigger endowment None that been bought back to the home bed

At first I thought as a husband that I would be both angry and jealous but she was so open about her sexual encounters and gave such specific details of how she enjoyed them that instead of being angry and jealous I was most aroused by her pleasure.

Since then I have encouraged her to find other sexual partners both male and female that can give her the pleasure and excitement that cannot

So I think this is an open and understanding relationship that we would like to take to the next level

Again the opportunity to communicate with like minded couples would be appreciated
Victorsev
 
That's hotwifing and cuckoldry. Go and check fetlife.com. It's like Facebook for kinksters. You can search for bulls (guys with "endowments") there, or other cucks, if you want to share experiences, fantasies and tips.
 
Greetings Victor,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

It sounds like you have been satisfied with cuckoldry so far, and are ready to move it up a notch to polyamory. I am glad you have joined this site, you can learn a lot here, and can definitely find like-minded couples to communicate with. Just keep reading and posting, you will get there in due time. FetLife is another good resource.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)

Notes:

There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!

Please read through the guidelines if you haven't already.

Note: You needn't read every reply to your posts, especially if someone posts in a disagreeable way. Given the size and scope of the site it's hard not to run into the occasional disagreeable person. Please contact the mods if you do (or if you see any spam), and you can block the person if you want.

If you have any questions about the board itself, please private-message a mod and they'll do their best to help.

Welcome aboard!
 
THank you for your Welcome

Hi Kevin T

THank you for your welcome post
I look forward to exploring the forum and learning from the experience of other members
Victorsev
 
Magdlyn said:
That's hotwifing and cuckoldry. Go and check fetlife.com. It's like Facebook for kinksters. You can search for bulls (guys with "endowments") there, or other cucks, if you want to share experiences, fantasies and tips.
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Or not. That's quite an assumption. It could just be compersion.

One thing I would like to point out to the OP is to have your wife make sure it is okay with her other partners to share intimate details.
 
It’s really not much of an assumption at all, vinsanity. Focusing on bigger dicks, pleasures he ‘can’t’ provide and hearing all the details is pretty much a version of hotwifing and cuckolding. I too read the OP’s posts as along this lines. Fetlife would be a good resource.

I can only echo the point about making sure the people your wife is being sexual with are ok with sharing intimate details of their sex with you. I personally would really dislike that.

I’d add thinking and talking with your wife about how to handle if she develops feelings for any of those partners - or if you want outside partners at some point.
 
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