RJ Lightman
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My husband and I have been interested in a triad relationship for several years, glad to have found you!
Hello from Spokane
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Hi and welcome 
What first piqued your interest in a triad? Was it a TV show or movie or something that got the conversations started? What kinds of things have you talked about since then? It can be super hard to find someone who wants to date an established couple but it's not impossible. Sometimes keeping all those relationships going can be hard too as they never develop exactly evenly.
I was briefly in a triad when I was younger. But it blew up spectacularly when the husband decided he wanted to leave the wide and just be with me when I tried to transition into a comet relationship because I needed to move away. I didn't want that to happen but he plowed on with telling her that anyway. He never did end up leaving her, he just caused a lifetime of pain all around.
Triads are hard, and my current partners and I date separately. But when triads are going well, they are absolutely great.
I wish you all the best in working out how to manage all the relationships in your future triad.
What first piqued your interest in a triad? Was it a TV show or movie or something that got the conversations started? What kinds of things have you talked about since then? It can be super hard to find someone who wants to date an established couple but it's not impossible. Sometimes keeping all those relationships going can be hard too as they never develop exactly evenly.
I was briefly in a triad when I was younger. But it blew up spectacularly when the husband decided he wanted to leave the wide and just be with me when I tried to transition into a comet relationship because I needed to move away. I didn't want that to happen but he plowed on with telling her that anyway. He never did end up leaving her, he just caused a lifetime of pain all around.
Triads are hard, and my current partners and I date separately. But when triads are going well, they are absolutely great.
I wish you all the best in working out how to manage all the relationships in your future triad.
Greetings RJ Lightman,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.
I hope you get the triad relationship you have been dreaming of, if there's any way we can help let us know. Poly can be hard work, but it is almost always worth it! Glad you could join us.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
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Welcome aboard!
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.
I hope you get the triad relationship you have been dreaming of, if there's any way we can help let us know. Poly can be hard work, but it is almost always worth it! Glad you could join us.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
Notes:
There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!
Please read through the guidelines if you haven't already.
Note: You needn't read every reply to your posts, especially if someone posts in a disagreeable way. Given the size and scope of the site it's hard not to run into the occasional disagreeable person. Please contact the mods if you do (or if you see any spam), and you can block the person if you want.
If you have any questions about the board itself, please private-message a mod and they'll do their best to help.
Welcome aboard!