Hello! I am new here. I have been dating my fiance for 4 years and recently got engaged. We are 22. We have always had a sort of open relationship (she would give me permission to have sex with other girls or guys as long as it was just sex and nothing more). Recently though, we decided we would be interested in adding a third person into our relationship. My fiance is shy, so I met up alone with this girl off of Tinder and would up hitting it off immediately. We would up having sex before she even met my fiance. However, I quickly realized that I move much faster than my fiance does. I make connections and get sexually attracted to people much faster than my fiance. Because of my fast pace, I have already built a pretty good connection with this girl off tinder. This makes my fiance feel very uncomfortable as she is not moving at the same speed and takes much more time to built a connection with someone. Things are just off balance. I guess I’m looking for advice, wanting to hear from people who have been in my position who might have some tips for me. This is all so new to me and I have no idea what I’m doing!!