Sannafrid
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Hey all. Before I get to my question, have some context. I have an awesome primary who is finishing college in another city, we are best friends, and we're both trying (without much luck, so far) to date other people while we're apart.
A couple weeks ago, I went on a date with a guy I met online. He messaged me first, and he was the one who suggested we meet in person. We really hit it off on our first date, and we ended up going back to his place. He said he wasn't ready for sex, but we did kiss and cuddle, and (on my end, at least) it felt like there was chemistry. The next morning he made me breakfast, I drove him to work, and he gave me a goodbye kiss. He texted me later the next day and said he had a great time and was looking forward to seeing me again.
We've hung out since then, and everything was totally different. He seemed glad to see me, but he didn't act like he was attracted to me at all. No touching, no flirting, no nothing. I'm fine with just being his friend, but I'm pretty confused about what changed between our first date and the next time I saw him. I probably should ask him about it, but I'm worried it would make him uncomfortable. To be fair, it would be uncomfortable for me, too. Has anyone else gone through something similar? Any insight?
A couple weeks ago, I went on a date with a guy I met online. He messaged me first, and he was the one who suggested we meet in person. We really hit it off on our first date, and we ended up going back to his place. He said he wasn't ready for sex, but we did kiss and cuddle, and (on my end, at least) it felt like there was chemistry. The next morning he made me breakfast, I drove him to work, and he gave me a goodbye kiss. He texted me later the next day and said he had a great time and was looking forward to seeing me again.
We've hung out since then, and everything was totally different. He seemed glad to see me, but he didn't act like he was attracted to me at all. No touching, no flirting, no nothing. I'm fine with just being his friend, but I'm pretty confused about what changed between our first date and the next time I saw him. I probably should ask him about it, but I'm worried it would make him uncomfortable. To be fair, it would be uncomfortable for me, too. Has anyone else gone through something similar? Any insight?