Hi everyone!

[lilianwillow]

Hi! I'm 34, pan, gray-ace, non-binary (she/they). I've been poly for 10+ years. I currently have one partner (husband, cis-male) and one meta. My husband and I have been together for 10 years, but dated off and on when we were teenagers. We have dated together in the past (though that wasn't the goal), but found that didn't work for us so now only date separate. It's important to me to be able to build a friendship with my metas. I think kitchen table polyamory describes what I'm aiming for. My extended family is very religious, so I'm not able to be open with them about being poly.

My husband and I have two kids (17 and 8). We also have two cats and a dog. I enjoy playing videogames (mostly Minecraft, Rocket League, and Animal Crossing), crochet, and drawing/doodling. I work as a Supports Coordinator for people with intellectual and developmental disabilities. I have a passion for helping people get the supports they need to live a fulfilling life.

 

[Evie]

Welcome, Lilian. That sounds like a rewarding job.

 

[ref2018]

Welcome to the forum, Lillian.

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings lilianwillow,
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