Leaping lizard
New member
Me and my partner are in a ethical non monogamous partnership. Right now I’m not seeing anyone but them. They have a consistent partner they have been seeing for a while. The last time I was at their place I left a bottle of lube FOR US to use. Now I understand that the discussion on whether or not they could us it on their other partner wasn’t had but I felt like it didn’t need to be had that’s a no brainer. So they used it with their other partner and I feel completely violated and like they don’t respect me.
What should I do? Am I overreacting? How should I handle the next steps?
What should I do? Am I overreacting? How should I handle the next steps?