In the beginning of our relationship, my boyfriend expressed to me that he would like an open relationship although he wouldn’t cheat on me if I said no. At the time I was uncomfortable with the idea and couldn’t imagine sharing him at all as I feel like I am a jealous person sometimes. More recently I’ve been considering and researching polyamory because I’ve noticed that, every time I am in a relationship with a man, I find myself wanting a girlfriend as well. It’s not that I’m dissatisfied with my boyfriend or that he’s not meeting my expectations, I love him a lot and we plan on moving in together soon. I just really, really crave a female partner as well. It’s not like I have anyone lined up, I would like to search for the third party together. I also have rules and boundaries that I’ve been thinking of because it’s definitely something that’s gonna take some adjusting to. Any advice? And if he says no I’m just gonna drop it, I don’t need another partner, but I feel like we would both enjoy it.