I'm a young poly male who's fallen in love with an older mono woman who's been great to me. She fell for me knowing that I'm poly, I guess she thought I'd change. She's asked before if I could be monogamous to her and I said I don't believe so and that I don't want to be. Yet she still said she'll see this thing through cause she can't imagine life without me. She'll often hold me and say, "All mine! Nobody else can have." I'm not currently hunting for a second partner but you know how that goes... love finds you when you least expect it. Either way, I know eventually I'll want to share love with another. I know from my girlfriend talking of her past breakups that if I fall for someone new she'll leave me, so I don't expect her to accept me with other partners. I do care for her deeply, and I don't want to leave her, but I feel that it'd be the right thing to do so I don't break her heart even more down the line. She's suggested relationship counseling, but it seems to me that neither of us will change, and eventually I'll fall for someone new and that will be the end of us :-(
What is your input on my situation?
What is your input on my situation?