Hey I just wanted to quickly update y'all since you've been so helpful to us with this situation...she did leave that night and we have been scrambling to close debit and credit cards. I guess she tried to use the cards and found out she was SOL and has been texting and trying to call my husband nonstop saying I was lying about her and she loves him more than I do and he needs to get rid of "dead weight", meaning me. Turns out she has been telling him for 2 months that I didn't love him anymore and was planning to leave him. She is now proclaiming she is indeed pregnant and my husband told her to come over and take a pregnancy test to prove it and if she is, she can stay until she has it, but as a tenant renting a room, not romantically. And it has been radio silence since. I feel like she is plotting...its just so surreal.
I am just shocked that she would behave this way...we included her in everything and truely loved her and never once treated her like she was an outsider...I just don't even know what to say...I am heartbroken.
Thank you all for all your advice, it is truely appreciated.