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Seras

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Hello Everyone,
I’m Seras,
I am mid 40s F (She/Her).
Currently Engaged to my partner (M/He/Him) who may join me here eventually…(or not based on his own comfort level).
My main reason for being here is to learn my partner and I are open to Polyamory and have discussed it on several occasions however aren’t really ready to actively pursue it at this time.
Friendships are of course are welcome.
I also want to say that I appreciate the unique skills experience and perspective I often see in Poly Peeps there’s a lot of potential growth for anyone in relationships here. I’m not sure what else to share about myself so feel free to ask questions.
(P.S. I hope I don’t sound like a personals add) 🤔
 
Greetings Seras,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

You don't sound like a personals ad, you are just someone who is looking at polyamory and trying to figure it out. Do you or your partner already have someone you are crushing on, or otherwise trying to establish a poly relationship with? Sometimes poly starts with having feelings for a third. In any case, I'm glad you are here, and hope you won't hesitate to ask any questions you may have.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter" :)

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Welcome aboard!
 
👋 Thanks for the reply 😀
So far no crushes yet but we’re still focused on figuring things out I expect we’re gonna move slowly we seem to agree on that. I will check out the thread you mentioned as well 🙂
 
Sounds good. I think you are wise to start things slowly, there is a lot to learn about poly, and you are kind of learning as you go along.
 
Seras said:
👋 Thanks for the reply 😀
So far no crushes yet but we’re still focused on figuring things out I expect we’re gonna move slowly we seem to agree on that. I will check out the thread you mentioned as well 🙂
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The most success for a formerly mono couple to open to ENM/polyamory is to take at least a year to research. Two is better. Of course, most couples don't do this and often end up in a pickle.

Besides reading threads here, you can start a thread to ask specific questions. There are also plenty of good books out there about poly these days, such as Opening Up, Polysecure, Designer Relationships, Sex at Dawn and others. If you go to Amazon and look up one of those, other books on poly will pop up.
 
Thanks 😊 I was planning to read Polysecure in the near future but I’ll take note of the others.
There’s no rush for us though. 😀
 
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