Hi everyone! I’m from upstate New York, looking for others in my area or willing to travel that are like-minded. I’m new to the polyamorous lifestyle, but it is something that I have always been drawn to. Open to bring a third into our long-term relationship. Or open to being the third in someone else’s relationship. Any advice or guidance would be greatly appreciated. Developing friendships is always nice, and maybe some more experienced people on here can help to guide me on my journey of just loving life
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Greetings Lovinlife,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.
You might want to check and see if there are any local poly groups in your area. Google "New York polyamory" and see what turns up. As for Polyamory.com, lots of people here will be willing to help you, I for one can help to guide you on your poly journey. Good luck!
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
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Welcome aboard!
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.
You might want to check and see if there are any local poly groups in your area. Google "New York polyamory" and see what turns up. As for Polyamory.com, lots of people here will be willing to help you, I for one can help to guide you on your poly journey. Good luck!
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
Notes:
There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!
Please read through the guidelines if you haven't already.
Note: You needn't read every reply to your posts, especially if someone posts in a disagreeable way. Given the size and scope of the site it's hard not to run into the occasional disagreeable person. Please contact the mods if you do (or if you see any spam), and you can block the person if you want.
If you have any questions about the board itself, please private-message a mod and they'll do their best to help.
Welcome aboard!
Hi. I will offer some advice.
First, here is what we request all couples coming here "seeking a third" to "add to our relationship" to read.
Also, I will recommend reading several articles from our Golden Nuggets section pertaining to opening up to polyamory as a formerly monogamous couple. One is about "detangling," and the other two are about the disappointment you might face looking for a unicorn, or looking to become one. Why are V-shaped relationships so much easier than triads?
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