Hello I’m BlueSocks.
I’m a woman in my late 30s based in the UK.
I’ve been on the kink scene on and off for nearly a decade and I’ve navigated that by trying ENM. This account is somewhat anonymous as I’m quite active on my local scene and the downside of that is that it’s actually really hard to find people to talk to about the difficulties with Poly because everyone either knows my partner or someone he or I have been involved with - so I keep my cards close to my chest to avoid upsetting anyone.
My partner and I have been together 5 years and we’re in a committed relationship, we see each-other as our “forever person” and he’s my best friend too.
Although we have other play partners (kink and sex) we don’t have other, I guess, “romantic relationships”. Friends with kinky benefits maybe?
I love reading fantasy, playing video games and binge watching tv! I enjoy the gym and being by the sea. I love animals. I love eating out at new restaurants. I’m a feminist, I’m pansexual, and I’m very very passionate about the welfare of women and the LQBTQ+ young people.
I’m not on here to find partners. I am here for support and much needed guidance. I was in a very damaged relationship before I met my current partner; we did Poly very wrong and it was a tool used to hurt me. So I’m coming at ENM again with fresh eyes.
Thank you for reading.
Blue x
I’m a woman in my late 30s based in the UK.
I’ve been on the kink scene on and off for nearly a decade and I’ve navigated that by trying ENM. This account is somewhat anonymous as I’m quite active on my local scene and the downside of that is that it’s actually really hard to find people to talk to about the difficulties with Poly because everyone either knows my partner or someone he or I have been involved with - so I keep my cards close to my chest to avoid upsetting anyone.
My partner and I have been together 5 years and we’re in a committed relationship, we see each-other as our “forever person” and he’s my best friend too.
Although we have other play partners (kink and sex) we don’t have other, I guess, “romantic relationships”. Friends with kinky benefits maybe?
I love reading fantasy, playing video games and binge watching tv! I enjoy the gym and being by the sea. I love animals. I love eating out at new restaurants. I’m a feminist, I’m pansexual, and I’m very very passionate about the welfare of women and the LQBTQ+ young people.
I’m not on here to find partners. I am here for support and much needed guidance. I was in a very damaged relationship before I met my current partner; we did Poly very wrong and it was a tool used to hurt me. So I’m coming at ENM again with fresh eyes.
Thank you for reading.
Blue x
