Introducing ourselves

[Mary Jane wants a bf]

Hello everyone and happy holiday season!
We’re a long time happily married couple, best friends and soulmates. We’ve both driven each other crazy (in the best way ) fantasizing about her finding a boyfriend. We’re big on physical fitness, great food, craft drinks and fun nights out. Hoping to meet some of you and make new friends.

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings Mary Jane wants a bf,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

You sound like a fun couple, I am glad you could join us, and feel confident you can meet some of us and make new friends. I gather you are relatively new to poly, up until now it has just been a fantasy. Let us know if you have any questions.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

Notes:

There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!

Please read through the guidelines if you haven't already.

Note: You needn't read every reply to your posts, especially if someone posts in a disagreeable way. Given the size and scope of the site it's hard not to run into the occasional disagreeable person. Please contact the mods if you do (or if you see any spam), and you can block the person if you want.

If you have any questions about the board itself, please private-message a mod and they'll do their best to help.

Welcome aboard!

 

[Mary Jane wants a bf]

Greetings Mary Jane wants a bf,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

You sound like a fun couple, I am glad you could join us, and feel confident you can meet some of us and make new friends. I gather you are relatively new to poly, up until now it has just been a fantasy. Let us know if you have any questions.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

Notes:

There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!

Please read through the guidelines if you haven't already.

Note: You needn't read every reply to your posts, especially if someone posts in a disagreeable way. Given the size and scope of the site it's hard not to run into the occasional disagreeable person. Please contact the mods if you do (or if you see any spam), and you can block the person if you want.

If you have any questions about the board itself, please private-message a mod and they'll do their best to help.

Welcome aboard!

Thank you so much!

 

[kdt26417]

No prob.

 

[Magdlyn]

Hello everyone and happy holiday season!
We’re a long time happily married couple, best friends and soulmates. We’ve both driven each other crazy (in the best way ) fantasizing about her finding a boyfriend. We’re big on physical fitness, great food, craft drinks and fun nights out. Hoping to meet some of you and make new friends.

I am not sure if you think this is a dating site. It isn't, actually. It is a forum for the discussion of topics related to polyamory.

We do have a dating and friendships section, but that's mostly overflow for confused people. We are an international site, so there aren't many local hookups happening here. But you can post in that section, using your geographic area, and see what happens. Just beware of scammers.

The best way to actually make friends here (not get a bf, which seems to be a strong drive for you two, sexually arousing), is to chat on threads about topics that interest you. That way, you will also learn about how to practice polyamory along the way.

 

[Mary Jane wants a bf]

Thank you for taking the time to clarify that. We appreciate your patience and kindness as there’s no doubt you deal with this frequently with newcomers.

 

[Magdlyn]

Thank you for taking the time to clarify that. We appreciate your patience and kindness as there’s no doubt you deal with this frequently with newcomers.

Sure, glad to help.

Since in your case, the husband is aroused by the idea of the wife getting a boyfriend, you seem to be stepping into hotwife or cuckolding territory, or perhaps something that could be realized in a swinging scenario. One place that is good to go for information about these fetishes is the website Fetlife.com.

Polyamory is about love, and doesn't necessarily include fetishizing the new sex the wife might be getting. It's about actually romantically loving more than one person, and how to go about arranging that to happen, emotions, scheduling, possible jealousy, compersion, sex health, time and money management, possible pregnancies and kids, introducing a new love to family and friends, etc., etc.