So he's been your bf since 2011? That's hardly a new bf then. He's Mr LR, like he's been your virtual husband since 2011?I reviewed this blog and my Wordpress blog. I found in August 2011 a reference to my current boyfriend as "Mr. LR". That works.
I am not sure why you have a condo and a house. Is the condo now mostly for the kids and the house is now yours to live in?