Just wanted to introduce myself.

[Lonnie keefer]

I'm 48 been married for 28 years I'm poly wife is not I have 2 beautiful grown daughters age 28 and 26 I have 7 grand kids 10 to 2 I'm looking for our 2nd wife some one that wants to be a member of a family and wants to be loved and care for

 

[Magdlyn]

I'm 48. I have been married for 28 years. I'm poly, my wife is not. I have 2 beautiful grown daughters ages 28 and 26. I have 7 grand kids ages 10 to 2. I'm looking for our 2nd wife, someone that wants to be a member of a family and wants to be loved and cared for.

It sounds like you want a second wife. But since your wife is not poly (and not bisexual?) she probably does not want a wife for herself. This would be YOUR second wife, not your current wife's second wife. Does that make sense?

Maybe you'd like to find a second wife for yourself, who would get along great with your current wife. An ideal sister wife.

Is your wife poly-friendly? Is she fine with you starting to look for dating prospects with the aim of finding a (non-legal) 2nd wife for yourself, to possibly move into her house eventually? Have you spent at least a year talking this over thoroughly, reading books and websites about polyamory, listening to podcasts, etc.? Have you had poly relationships before, with your wife involved or prior to meeting her?

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings Lonnie keefer,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

I take it you are looking to form an FMF V, with you as the "hinge," and your two wives as the "legs" of the V. And I kind of get the impression that all three of you would live in the same home. Am I right in thinking that?

It takes a while to find what you're looking for, but if you are patient, the right woman will turn up eventually. Hopefully Polyamory.com can help, certainly we can at least answer any questions you might have. Glad you could be with us!

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

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