Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

Except in "The Princess Bride" where you can be only MOSTLY dead and still come back, if you can afford a miracle...
 
You guys are killin' me here ...
 
Would a "very undead" person be an extraordinarily decomposed zombie, or a really energetic one?

Like, emphasis on the un-....or the -dead...?

These are very important philosophical questions here!!

One of the examples in a college grammar book, made me laugh...it was about the placement of sentence bits, and how it can change the meaning of a sentence.

"Baked for an hour, the chef removed the cake from the oven." Something like that. Well, are we sure that the chef wasn't baked? I mean, maybe he had the munchies and that's what the cake was for, right?
 
I love you all.
 
For some reason I have been struggling lately to keep up on all my Polyamory.com posts. I'm pretty sure the forum has gotten a lot busier lately, that's at least part of it. Anyway I'll keep trying ...

Not sure if I am just being paranoid or if Snowbunny is putting off a vibe of being less than ecstatic about me lately. Either that or there's something bothering her in general. And I am being a coward and keeping my mouth shut. I don't want to stir the pot. I think it's just paranoia on my part. It's been worse than usual lately.

Gods, I wonder how much has piled up on Facebook. I haven't been there in over a week. And before I go there I have FetLife to catch up on. Woe is me and my first world problems.
 
Don't worry Kevin. I got your back covered in the welcoming department, but I don't have all the your links you provide.

Maybe give snowbunny another week to see if things settle on their own if you don't want to stir the pot. Or you could take the plunge and delve right in to ask her. Maybe she'll appreciate you taking an interest in her mood. I dunno. I'd flip a coin. :)
 
@ all the silliness : You guy are great :D Loved reading this.

I'm with Shaya, Kevin, flip a coin or wait a week. :) Hope it settles soon or resolves its self in some way.

Thinking of you.
 
Thanks guys. I appreciate your support.
 
This past Tuesday, I actually had a moment with Snowbunny that was a good opportunity to inquire about if she was upset with me at all. She assured me that she was not upset with me, so, all is well. She pointed out that she tends to speak her mind right away, and doesn't bottle stuff up. It was a good point and well taken. And I tend to get paranoid, so there it is. I'm just glad things are okay.
 
I get paranoid sometimes, too.

I'm also a heavy-duty "Words of Affirmation" person. And Zen...really is not. So when I don't hear from him for a few days, between our plans, there are some times I feel like maybe he is cooling off on me or second guessing if he wants me in his life or something. Just...something. That vague, "is something wrong?" that is really a desire for a bit of validation.

I have to remember "The last time we saw each other, how did you touch you and look at you? Did he show you love in his languages?" The answer is always, YES. And then I remember, "Zen does not change on a dime. He overthinks everything and moves slowly when it comes to life changes. He is happy to have this relationship and is making life plans around it. He's not just going to suddenly do a 180 in the space of a couple days."

I'm getting much better at calming and pacifying myself.
 
Spork said:
I get paranoid sometimes, too.

I'm also a heavy-duty "Words of Affirmation" person. And Zen...really is not. So when I don't hear from him for a few days, between our plans, there are some times I feel like maybe he is cooling off on me or second guessing if he wants me in his life or something. Just...something. That vague, "is something wrong?" that is really a desire for a bit of validation.

I have to remember "The last time we saw each other, how did you touch you and look at you? Did he show you love in his languages?" The answer is always, YES. And then I remember, "Zen does not change on a dime. He overthinks everything and moves slowly when it comes to life changes. He is happy to have this relationship and is making life plans around it. He's not just going to suddenly do a 180 in the space of a couple days."

I'm getting much better at calming and pacifying myself.
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This is all fantastic and good stuff to think about. I am also paranoid sometimes in this manner. Never with Rider because, gawd, he couldn't make it clearer how much he loves me, even when he's messing up, but with pretty much everyone else!
 
Glad I'm not the only one, ;)
 
Yesterday (Sunday the 4th) the three of us drove to a park about half an hour away, and did a little walking on the trails there. Snowbunny was dreaming of canoeing on the lake there. After that we went to a place called "MOD Pizza." MOD stands for Made On Demand. You customize your (small personal) pizza and they make it on the spot. I was overwhelmed at first, but then I got into it, and had them assemble a veggie pizza. I'm not normally a huge pizza fan, but the pizza I got was really good. Pesto sauce, jalapeños, olives, extra mozzarella, feta, artichokes, tomatoes. If we go there again I'll order the same thing. Really good, did I mention that?
 
We have a MOD Pizza here, Zen and I have eaten there many times. I LOVE LOVE LOVE their iced tea. I think it's a spiced pear flavor or something? I can't remember, but it is delicious!

I usually get white sauce, chicken, and all sorts of cheese.

Their cinnamon stick dessert pizza with sweet icing is pretty good, too.
 
Sounds like your MOD has more options than ours ... or at least I didn't notice the other options. I'll have to keep an eye out for that tea the next time around.
 
Love MOD Pizza! They're a Seattle-based company, and I not only enjoy the food but I also really feel good about their company values (they hire people who traditionally have a difficult time finding employment, such as felons, and pay a living wage).

I think their iced tea flavors get rotated, the pear is definitely the bomb! :)
 
The one I went to had a trans (MtF I think) person working there. So that's a good example of the company values you spoke of.
 
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