Kinda new, just never said hello yet

[NugBa]

Hi All,

I guess I was just a bit shy to say hello. I've been happily married to the same woman for 27 years. Long story short, we are pretty happy, with a 9-week old boy in the house. We had frozen embryos and decided to use a gestational carrier to bring him into the world. We both made the decision to be full time stay-at-home parents. We are a team. She does the day shift and I’m on nights.

So, what am I doing here? Well, I guess I’m just a little bored.

I'm not new to poly, but still a virgin. I’m 53, straight, wife is 56, straight, and willing to share with the right woman she can be friends with. I have one platonic female friend that’s poly, and another modern polygamy friend that we dated for a time, but never connected romantically with. On the plus side, I now count my MP friend as one of my nearest and dearest. If she did not live in Michigan, we probably would have become romantically involved.

Future relationships? Maybe, if we can find the right woman who is interested in a healthy long-term relationship.

Well, that’s it for now…

John

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings John,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

Congratulations on your newborn. It sounds like you have a pretty solid idea of what you are looking for in the polyamorous realm, I hope you find what you seek. It looks like you have been a member here for a couple of years, hopefully what you have read so far has been helpful. Don't be shy, keep us posted as your situation evolves. Glad to have you with us, and thanks for saying hello!

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[David_in_Milwaukee]

Hi All,

Happily married to the same woman for 27 years, with a 9 week old boy in the house. We both made the decision to be full time stay at home parents.
So, what am I doing here? Well I guess I’m just a little bored.

Not new to poly, but still a virgin. I’m 53, straight, wife is 56, straight, and willing to share with the right woman she can be friends with. I have one platonic female friend that’s poly, and another modern polygamy friend that we dated for a time but never connected romantically with. On the plus side I now count my MP friend as one of my nearest and dearest. If she did not live in Michigan, we probably would have become romantically involved.

Future relationships? Maybe, if we can find the right woman who is interested in a healthy long term relationship.

Well that’s it for now…

John

Welcome. Best wishes on your journey.

 

[Evie]

"Well I guess I’m just a little bored."

I'm sure many, many new parents would envy that you have time to be bored. Is your wife bored, too?

 

[NugBa]

Aww it's not how it sounds lol. Actually we are a team.

She is on day shift, I'm nights. We split the diaper changes, feedings. She makes dinner, I clean the house and wash the cloth diapers exc so yes I pull more than my weight around here.

We were fortunate with our investments so both of us decided to stop working and take care of our son full time. My background is in IT so I can work when I want if I want. Well, our son is a handful but to be honest, I respect stay at home moms and have no idea how single woman do it because we are exhausted!

So when I say bored, I mean, well, it's just us, minimal adult conversation beyond babble..

Don't get me wrong, I love my family and I feel privileged to be here now in life doing what we are doing but I miss adult conversation.

John