Looking for advice, new to the LS

[Couple in NJ]

Hello all,

We are a 65 year old couple looking for advice and guidance from the group here. We tried swinger sites and that is not what we are looking for. As we look into this further we are seeing poly, ENM, CNM and who knows what else is out there. We are hoping with our post in the general section of this forum you can guide us in our endeavor.

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings Couple in NJ,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

I have looked at your other thread and responded there briefly. To summarize, you should look for some poly dating sites, also see if there is a poly group in your area. I hope you find what you're looking for!

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

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[Magdlyn]

Just FYI, polyamorists do not consider this or call it the "lifestyle." We consider poly to be more of a love style, and we also don't need to use any euphemism. Generally "lifestyle" refers to swinging or BDSM.

I referred you to our resources list in your other thread. We also have a glossary of terms here:

Glossary and Definitions

Bisexual: sexually attracted to both men and women. Closed Marriage : Marriages where their is no outer emotional relating or sexuality. Closed Group Marriage 1: A group of individuals who describe themselves as married but may or may not be all primaries and who are closed to outside sexual...

polyamory.com

 

[Magdlyn]

Triad or V - What's More Complicated?

I get a lot of people new to polyamory insisting that they must date together, or meet people together, because it "will be less complicated." I see this in comments on social media, on dating app profiles, on couple's profiles on social media (that black and red one that starts with an F...

www.readyforpolyamory.com

 

[ref2018]

I moved the off-topic posts to River's sex thread in the Fireplace. I'm sure we've scared the OP of this thread away, so no need to keep posting here unless you have something to say directly to the OP.