Lovers

[mandy.benoit]

Hi. I'm in a committed relationship with my husband of a long time. He likes to have sex with other women, but is not open to other men. He swears that he loves me and is happy in our relationship and sex life. I actually like the women in our lives. He only participates if I'm open and willing. Thoughts?

 

[Evie]

If it's working for you, keep doing it. If it's not, examine why. You've painted a rosy picture, so why are you here asking for thoughts on something that seems to be working?

 

[kdt26417]

Hello mandy.benoit,

As long as you are consenting to the situation, he is okay to have sex with other women. Does he treat you right? Do you wish he would be open to other men? Would he be okay with it if you had sex with other women or men?

Just some thoughts,
Kevin T.

 

[Magdlyn]

Hi. I'm in a committed relationship with my husband of a long time. He likes to have sex with other women, but is not open to other men.

You mean, he can have sex with other women but you can't have sex with other men? We call this a one-penis policy. If you are not bisexual, maybe you want an open relationship, where you can have sex (or date) men. Do you? Is this a problem between you and your husband?

He swears that he loves me and is happy in our relationship and sex life. I actually like the women in our lives. He only participates if I'm open and willing. Thoughts?

Are you open and willing for him to have sex with other women, or not?