Multi-partner cohabitation

Positives and Negatives so far

Well, it's only been about three months since I moved into the downstairs suite, but I thought I would give a brief update, so brief, it will be in point form.

Positives:

- I get to see Redpepper every day in a more unscheduled way.
- Our family time doesn't have to be so planned, as I am just downstairs.
- Our flexibility with child care has become extremely advantageous. Three adults allows for more private individual time, for sure!
- The sex-- lots and lots and lots.
- Redpepper is never far from PN and their son.
- I get to see their son LB more and can contribute more easily with little things like picking him up after school.
- Redpepper has her own room downstairs.

Negatives:

............ ........... .......... Well, there are a couple.
- Redpepper doesn't get as much freedom in her room because it is smack dab in the middle of my suite.
- My bike is not as shielded from the environment.

Things are going pretty damn good! :D
 
Yay! New door. Do you have a big hammer to do the demo with?
 
Unfortunately, my hammer isn't that big, but I compensate by swinging it a lot!
 
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So it might take a little longer, but it gets the job done in the end?
 
Phase one completed!

Took down the dry-wall, assessed the plumbing/electrical adjustments and finalized where the door will be to join the two suites. Next step, get supplies!
 
We are one more building day away from having our doorway! This weekend will mark the end of needing to go outside to move between my suite and the main floor. I will have a door, but am looking forward to life getting a little more efficient.
 
And there it is! Complete access, so Redpepper never has to get cold or wet coming to visit me. Now she can easily wake up in her room and it won't be an ordeal for her to go upstairs to get ready for work. :) LB is looking forward to visiting, as well. I've got to finish the wiring for the dryer, hang a door and do some finishing work (drywall/trim) and that's it! Now I can better organize the storage spaces to maximize everyone's comfort. I love building stuff...wood or computers, there's just a sense of accomplishment.
 
Wanna fly up and build me a room over the garage? I SO fucking need my own room! ;)

I had a dream last night I was on a bike and rode right up to y'all's place. :)
 
Naw, it'd be up. I meant did he want to drive up and build me a room over our garage? ;)

BUT, I'd certainly prefer the weather down there... and all the nice people!
 
Ah gotcha. I must have been reading that post at work and not reading it well. How hard is it to build extra rooms anyway?
 
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