My husband and I are VERY new to this. We’ve had a lot of discussion and thoughts over the years, and decided to dive into meeting our third person (girl). However, we’ve not had much luck. I was wondering if anyone had any advice about groups. I’ve heard you can use kik. We’ve tried feeld, #open, OkCupid, tinder and MeetMe, and so far, no luck. We don’t want hookups; we want someone level headed to join us, who is serious and wants to settle down, as well.