New here and to Poly

[Just_trying_to_learn]

Hi hi, 39 year old female from California. Like the title says, I’m new, about 6 months of learning about poly. Looking for community and a little guidance. I’ve listen to More Than Two and Polysecure thus far. Welcome any other literature or perhaps online info as well. Hope everyone has an amazing weekend

 

[Evie]

Some more reading material here: https://www.morethantwo.com/relationshipbillofrights.html

Unfortunately the site is full of ads, but if you can navigate that, there's some good ideas in there.

 

[Just_trying_to_learn]

Much appreciated

 

[Magdlyn]

Check out our Golden Nuggets section for a list of articles, books and a podcast, as well as links to older threads here on just about every polyamory topic you could imagine. There is a wealth of valuable information.

https://polyamory.com/forums/golden-nuggets.26/

 

[Just_trying_to_learn]

Thank you so much

 

[kdt26417]

Greetings Just_trying_to_learn,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.

I looked at your other thread and responded there briefly. To summarize, I think it is fine to ask your partner/s for what you need. Worst case scenario they say no, leaving you where you were anyway. Anyway I hope our replies have been helpful so far.

Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"

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