New to poly in NH
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Greetings explorers,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.
I don't know if you have tried googling "New Hampshire polyamory?" or "polyamory" plus the name of the major city closest to you. There may be (a) poly group/s in your area -- maybe. Otherwise you might be the one to get out there and meet people in person -- and tell them about poly. Poly is not widely recognized and accepted -- not yet. In the meantime, enjoy your stay on Polyamory.com where you will meet people who share this way of life.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
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Welcome aboard!
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.
I don't know if you have tried googling "New Hampshire polyamory?" or "polyamory" plus the name of the major city closest to you. There may be (a) poly group/s in your area -- maybe. Otherwise you might be the one to get out there and meet people in person -- and tell them about poly. Poly is not widely recognized and accepted -- not yet. In the meantime, enjoy your stay on Polyamory.com where you will meet people who share this way of life.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
Notes:
There's a *lot* of good info in Golden Nuggets. Have a look!
Please read through the guidelines if you haven't already.
Note: You needn't read every reply to your posts, especially if someone posts in a disagreeable way. Given the size and scope of the site it's hard not to run into the occasional disagreeable person. Please contact the mods if you do (or if you see any spam), and you can block the person if you want.
If you have any questions about the board itself, please private-message a mod and they'll do their best to help.
Welcome aboard!
What do you mean by "this way of life"? Do you mean you and your husband want to have sexual threesomes with another woman, like swinging?
If you are attracted to women and want to have a real adult relationship, which includes love and dates and a sharing of your lives, as well as sex, then you might be polyamorous. However, your husband doesn't automatically get to be loved by this hypothetical woman, nor does she automatically fall in love with him. A relationship where all three people fall in love and lust equally is very rare. Finding a hot bi babe to share between both members of a couple is called a unicorn, because she is so rare, she barely exists. The arrangement is called a triad.
The best thing to do, for threeway sex and casual friendship, is to join a swinger's site. There the main MF couple remains intact, and all new partners are mainly for sex, maybe with some friendship mixed in, but no real one-on-one commitments.
Or, if you and hubs and both poly, you go get your gfs (or other bfs) and he goes and gets gfs (bfs, if he's bi) of his own. That's what most poly people do. You'd meet people into this at munches, at parties, in hobby groups, online on Feeld or Fetlife, or other places poly people gather.