Greetings Capsgirl84,
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It is possible for there to be a mono/poly relationship, where one partner is monogamous, but they allow the other partner to practice polyamory. I don't know if this is the case with the married man you are somewhat in a relationship with. Or if his spouse does not approve of his relationship with you, or if his spouse doesn't know of his relationship with you, or if they do know, but only consent to it if it is a somewhat-relationship. As we get more information about your situation, we can hopefully help. You may want to start a new thread in
Poly Relationships Corner, where more people will read of your situation and respond. You'll get pretty good responses here in intros too though, probably.
Sincerely,
Kevin T., "official greeter"
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