Hi everyone! My husband and I have been in an ENM relationship for 2 years. Any suggestions as to how to approach the topic of beginning a vee polyamorous relationship?
My first recommendation would be to take a look at our recommended resources. The book Opening Up covers all the basics of how to successfully practice polyamory or any other open relationship form.
Is this something that you want to do, and you are asking how to approach your husband with it? like, "Hi honey, I am wondering if we could begin a polyamorous vee relationship?" How much does your husband know about polyamory, and how much do you know about how favorably disposed he is toward it? I guess my default answer is to keep it simple and straightforward, but that could change as I get more familiar with the details of your situation.
It would be beneficial for him to do some reading and studying, maybe you could do that together. As a part of that process you could both be on this forum -- unless you're worried about not having your own place for venting. It's good that you're here, that's for sure.