Polygirlfriend
New member
Hi There, first post here and have been reading a lot of the questions and responses which has been helpful.
We have been together since October and are both bisexual. We both have been involved in sex parties, unicorns etc for a little while and are looking for a relationship and she a primary partner as she's Poly. I'm more monogamous in a relationship though if we saw other people it would be together. We are dating in the hopes that we are each others primary partners.
The only boundary she told me there is, is that we tell each other when we sleep with someone else. At first I didn't want to know when she was with other people as it was more often then she saw me and made me feel awful. This has since changed as she noted she feels 'dirty' and uncomfortable not telling me.
I'm struggling at the moment with this as its beginning to feel like a bit of a free for all where there are no limits. Any relationship, friendship or romantic, is built by compromise and give and take, which I don't feel we have. I'd like to introduce a few boundaries but I'm not sure what is acceptable to ask and would therefore like to ask the community for some advice and guidance on this.
Any guidance would be appreciated.
We have been together since October and are both bisexual. We both have been involved in sex parties, unicorns etc for a little while and are looking for a relationship and she a primary partner as she's Poly. I'm more monogamous in a relationship though if we saw other people it would be together. We are dating in the hopes that we are each others primary partners.
The only boundary she told me there is, is that we tell each other when we sleep with someone else. At first I didn't want to know when she was with other people as it was more often then she saw me and made me feel awful. This has since changed as she noted she feels 'dirty' and uncomfortable not telling me.
I'm struggling at the moment with this as its beginning to feel like a bit of a free for all where there are no limits. Any relationship, friendship or romantic, is built by compromise and give and take, which I don't feel we have. I'd like to introduce a few boundaries but I'm not sure what is acceptable to ask and would therefore like to ask the community for some advice and guidance on this.
Any guidance would be appreciated.