Two years ago, I almost ended my relationship with my husband (he’s the only guy I had been with) because I met someone else when my husband decided to be open. He let me see this guy. Then my husband met someone too. After that, things went sour with the guy.
My husband told his girlfriend that we would like for her to be our girlfriend. So my husband’s girlfriend became my girlfriend too. But since she's been with us, she’s only shown him affection: kisses and playful punches. But if I try to kiss her, she pushes away and I end up kissing her neck, not her lips. Yet she ask my husband about what kind of things I like. She told him she and I need to have a girl's night.
The first time I kissed her she looked a little nervous, but told my husband she liked it. They recently got intimate. I’m not jealous. In fact, her scent on him was a turn-on for me. I keep telling my husband that she doesn't feel about me the way I feel about her.
So, for the last two years it’s been nothing but fighting, to the point where I don’t know what to do. I love my husband. But if I walk away, he's told me that it will be over. I know that I used my guy friend to make him jealous, but we never fought about it.
She and I do flirt with each other, but that’s it. I’m torn because I’ve fallen love with her daughter. I have even accepted her as mine. I think that’s what will hurt me more if things don’t change. From what my husband tells me, she’s just nervous because she’s never been with a woman. She doesn’t know what do. I think that’s something she needs to discuss with me, not him.
Please help.
My husband told his girlfriend that we would like for her to be our girlfriend. So my husband’s girlfriend became my girlfriend too. But since she's been with us, she’s only shown him affection: kisses and playful punches. But if I try to kiss her, she pushes away and I end up kissing her neck, not her lips. Yet she ask my husband about what kind of things I like. She told him she and I need to have a girl's night.
The first time I kissed her she looked a little nervous, but told my husband she liked it. They recently got intimate. I’m not jealous. In fact, her scent on him was a turn-on for me. I keep telling my husband that she doesn't feel about me the way I feel about her.
So, for the last two years it’s been nothing but fighting, to the point where I don’t know what to do. I love my husband. But if I walk away, he's told me that it will be over. I know that I used my guy friend to make him jealous, but we never fought about it.
She and I do flirt with each other, but that’s it. I’m torn because I’ve fallen love with her daughter. I have even accepted her as mine. I think that’s what will hurt me more if things don’t change. From what my husband tells me, she’s just nervous because she’s never been with a woman. She doesn’t know what do. I think that’s something she needs to discuss with me, not him.
Please help.