Polyamory relationship with an extremely desired man, and unsure what I want
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Hmmm.... Tbh, i get a really big vibe you are being judgemental of the dude. The vibe is based on the descriptions you use, like ”sport-sex harem” where OP didn't divulge much about the guy motivations. And that's only one example.
I mean, i am not criticizing your stance on the situation you describe (aka sporthareming), i am criticizing what i see as overinterpreting the situation.
And i am not sure she is handling anything the right way. Tbh, i have the same suspicion ref2018 voicer, i just did not care since it's still possible if weird story so why not respond to it as if it was true? No harm done.
(My doubts increased given Natalie statement of distancing from these parties and making std testing in a span of four workdays. That was quick! But still, it's only a doubt)
Over-interpreting a simple situation of a cute guy going down a line of bare asses giving each girl a one-minute quickie?
I don't always agree with Kevin, but I do here. Her stopping going to these orgies seems to be a good decision, since they were giving her more pain than pleasure.
The only harm is in the feeding of the troll. We haven't had one in a while, but they often involve harems.
I agree. "She" started the thread on Thursday, decided to not go to any more orgies and got tested and got results by Saturday? Fat chance.
Mr Maple
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DAMN someone call cheesy teen drama, we have another Twilight movie in the works. 
I am sorry, but this sounds like one of the stupid movies on Netflix, Hot guy has all these girls hanging off his dick because ..... hes hot?
Everything that I have seen tells me to smack all the girls upside the head (speaking as a dad) and ask what is wrong with them.
I have personally known guys like that, one got three girls preg and just walked away from them, they Grad just before or after having a baby, and other guys avoided them because they didn't want to be a daddy yet least of all to someone else kid (stupid mentality)
The guys that I knew were like this, just wanted one thing, pussy. all these girls throwing themselves at him are just stroking his ego, fueling an entitlement that he can have what he wants. I fear what happens when a girl says no.
IF you are ok with being in an actual relationship with a guy and another girl/s then that's great. just make sure that you and all involved are communicating with each other and being fair, setting up rules and whatnot to keep you all together in a supportive relationship.
Stop looking for the cute guy, they are a dime a dozen, and a fair number of them are just going to be an ass hole because they had good looks when they were younger, and 5-10 years from now, they won't.
IMHO you should look at the guys that are respectful and considerate of you, the ones that actually talk to you like a human being and not just a set of legs that can open up, the ones that probably are not hitting on you and other girls all the time because you may have given him the wrong impression that you are just a party girl that is only good for one thing.
You sound like actually do have a good head and heart, lets start using them a little more.
I am sorry, but this sounds like one of the stupid movies on Netflix, Hot guy has all these girls hanging off his dick because ..... hes hot?
Everything that I have seen tells me to smack all the girls upside the head (speaking as a dad) and ask what is wrong with them.
I have personally known guys like that, one got three girls preg and just walked away from them, they Grad just before or after having a baby, and other guys avoided them because they didn't want to be a daddy yet least of all to someone else kid (stupid mentality)
The guys that I knew were like this, just wanted one thing, pussy. all these girls throwing themselves at him are just stroking his ego, fueling an entitlement that he can have what he wants. I fear what happens when a girl says no.
IF you are ok with being in an actual relationship with a guy and another girl/s then that's great. just make sure that you and all involved are communicating with each other and being fair, setting up rules and whatnot to keep you all together in a supportive relationship.
Stop looking for the cute guy, they are a dime a dozen, and a fair number of them are just going to be an ass hole because they had good looks when they were younger, and 5-10 years from now, they won't.
IMHO you should look at the guys that are respectful and considerate of you, the ones that actually talk to you like a human being and not just a set of legs that can open up, the ones that probably are not hitting on you and other girls all the time because you may have given him the wrong impression that you are just a party girl that is only good for one thing.
You sound like actually do have a good head and heart, lets start using them a little more.