Hi,
I'm a 26 yo bisexual female from Istanbul. I've always had issues with my monogamous relationships. They often ended with infidelity or my bfs being jealous of the close relationship with my gfs. Then I came out as bisexual which is also very recent.
I started to see casually one of my exes after 4 years and he is the only guy i was feeling safe by being fully myself near him. We were discussing about trying something more. We had a threesome with his bff couple of times and last time they also shared something betwen each other they havent shared before. They are also confused about it because it was a first for them. I really like seeing them together, it doesn't bother me at all in fact it turns me on and makes me feel like we are a whole.
They talked about their situation one of them is ok and one is hesitant but we didnt talk about what would happen next, i guess we'll wait and see.
We all are very comfortable with each other, i love their company and want to create my poly life with them but don't know how to start it since I don't know how should i talk to them about it. They are already having a confusing situation for themselves. I'm afraid of scaring them off by talking about to create a relationship out of us. I don't want a closed relationship but I want three of us to be the core and stay that way.
I really have no idea how it starts. It seems like it will happen on its own but it might not too... Or i am just too excited for this.
I really appreciate if someone can guide me.
I'm a 26 yo bisexual female from Istanbul. I've always had issues with my monogamous relationships. They often ended with infidelity or my bfs being jealous of the close relationship with my gfs. Then I came out as bisexual which is also very recent.
I started to see casually one of my exes after 4 years and he is the only guy i was feeling safe by being fully myself near him. We were discussing about trying something more. We had a threesome with his bff couple of times and last time they also shared something betwen each other they havent shared before. They are also confused about it because it was a first for them. I really like seeing them together, it doesn't bother me at all in fact it turns me on and makes me feel like we are a whole.
They talked about their situation one of them is ok and one is hesitant but we didnt talk about what would happen next, i guess we'll wait and see.
We all are very comfortable with each other, i love their company and want to create my poly life with them but don't know how to start it since I don't know how should i talk to them about it. They are already having a confusing situation for themselves. I'm afraid of scaring them off by talking about to create a relationship out of us. I don't want a closed relationship but I want three of us to be the core and stay that way.
I really have no idea how it starts. It seems like it will happen on its own but it might not too... Or i am just too excited for this.
I really appreciate if someone can guide me.
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