SEASONEDpolyAgain
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There's an interesting few discussions on Fetlife about red flags.
On one side, people are arguing that red flags are almost objective signs that someone is dangerous. A man who wants to meet a woman in his cellar, won't give any personal information at all and says limits are for cowards.
The other group say that you could call a deal breaker like smoking is a red flag. Smoking is not a great example because I guess you could say that smoking is harmful to self and others. Say something like an avid foodie who says someone who isn't interested in eating out at expensive restaurants is a "red flag". Or someone who doesn't like sports. Anything that makes them incompatible with you basically and these are totally subjective and personal.
What are your thoughts?
On one side, people are arguing that red flags are almost objective signs that someone is dangerous. A man who wants to meet a woman in his cellar, won't give any personal information at all and says limits are for cowards.
The other group say that you could call a deal breaker like smoking is a red flag. Smoking is not a great example because I guess you could say that smoking is harmful to self and others. Say something like an avid foodie who says someone who isn't interested in eating out at expensive restaurants is a "red flag". Or someone who doesn't like sports. Anything that makes them incompatible with you basically and these are totally subjective and personal.
What are your thoughts?