I'm interested in getting into a poly relationship. The reasons range from being able to support one another emotionally, to having sexual desires that cannot be resolved with monogamy. I don't want to join a couple but maybe build some relationships. Advice?
Feel free to start checking out the excellent resources for polyamory listed in this thread. It's a big subject, so giving sort of open-ended advice would take a lot of time!
I'd recommend starting with reading Opening Up. It is aimed at solo polyamorists as well as couples who want to transition from monogamy to some form of ethical non-monogamy.
I looked through some of the articles and will get to books I think. I have a male companion who is interested in being involved but has never been in a proper poly relationship either. Reading some of the posts and articles tells me that we have more to discuss. We are not a formal couple but we go out together every now and again. Looking forward to learning.
You can always try poly dating sites, but getting out there and meeting people in person usually works better. You might want to google "Saint Louis polyamory" or "Missouri polyamory," and see if there are any poly groups near you. Sometimes you can get to know people just as friends, then later on a friendship can surprise you and turn into something more. Good luck!
