I started a post but managed to lose it so here goes again...
So, I did have that dinner. During dinner she brought up poly. Remember, at first she thought poly meant like threesomes or group sex. I had corrected that. Now she was asking if it was like triads or ktp all the time. Not surprising considering that is how it is portrayed in mainstream media. So I briefly explained how my previous polycule with Cat, Elle, Sprite, Mary, and MK worked.
She was skeptical, holding onto the monogamy default. I talked with her a little more about it and she indicated she'd like to read a little more about it. I recommended the More Than Two website. She said she would check it out. Then we went in with dinner and I left.
I think it was two days later I got my results back. Did I mention they screwed up and used my middle name as my first name? I checked that on a lark and there were my results lol.
So I went back over for dinner and the much awaited first BDSM session. As we were waiting for dinner she told me she checked out the website and decided she was fine with poly. Of course I'm a little skeptical of this, but it may be a while before this is put to the test, due to Covid and all.
She did ask me some questions about logistics. Her questions led me to believe it would be best to practice parallel poly, which is fine by me.
We then had our session, which was pretty good, considering she is a stone cold newbie. I spent the night. And the next night and maybe a couple more nights lol
Sounds good, right? But I have a conundrum. My libido has taken a dive. I just don't seem to be all that interested in sex, which is weird because that's all I've been thinking about for quite some time. I guess this is something I should ask my doctor about? Maybe it's my medication. And sure, I had a mild stroke, but it's not like it exhausted me physically or anything. I felt fine except for my eyesight and a slight headache.
Pet, otoh, is extremely horny and talks about sex a lot. It reminds me of what happened with MK. Back then I was still grieving so I had an excuse for not being as horny. Now? I don't know. All I know is I have this woman who is ready, willing, and able to do whatever I want sexually and I'm happy hanging out and watching TV. WTF?