To understand why your partner is avoiding you, think about what happened in their childhood and the last conversations you had. That should tell you everything. Long ago, I tried to court 1 girl. She told me about her traumatic childhood and how her family issues still hurt her. In our last conversation, I poured my emotions out on the topic of family. We flirted and the next day, she told me to find other girls before avoiding me. One day we flirt and the next day she's telling me to find other women? It doesn't make sense! When attraction gets too strong, some people avoid you because they're hurt of being abandoned like they were in their childhoods.