If and when I go and visit, there will be no real loss if things don't work out. Either the women and I will have a good time. or not. My mum's going to get to see her little boy for a longer duration.
Do you have issues with "Mommy"? It sounds a bit weird for a man in his 40s to call himself his mum's little boy. Is this why you can relate to these women who have incest issues? I'm just wondering.
I'll clarify here as much as I can. Yes, they live with 4-6 other girls.
"Girls?" Are some under the age of 18?
They are all treated equally by one male (their Daddy Dom), and they all currently have sex with each other, but not at one time, and not every night. There is a schedule for that.
Lucky man, lol. I doubt the truth of that. We get men coming to this board talking about having harems, and they turn out to be trolls writing fantasy erotica.
The above had my head spinning. But I wasn't introduced to all truths at first.
Forgive me for being somewhat vague in some answers, but privacy must be #1.
There is no way anyone here can identify you in Australia, and these women in Canada. We just need the facts to be clear, in order to give proper advice. We don't want to waste our time or yours.
The two women wish to eventually break away from the house. They are not forced to stay. They are free to come and go as they please.
Obviously, Covid has some say.
It sure does! I would guess we are a good year away from comprehensive testing and an available vaccine, if not much longer. Just think about that as you build your cloud castles regarding relationships with 2 women with troubled pasts, who live on the opposite side of the world. I highly recommend you seek women near you. This is all just fun and games online. Don't get your hopes up.
Enjoy it for what it is, a masturbatory fantasy, some kind of connection, but don't count on it as a real life scenario.
Regarding financial dependence on me: I was upfront from the beginning, I'm no millionaire. They know full well the only support they will get is the employer that pays them. I promise to give them all the love and care in the world, but cash ain't included with that.
Don't make promises! "All the love and care in the world" promised to 2 women with incest abuse issues and you haven't even met them yet? I wouldn't promise all the "love and care in the world" to a person I'd been dating in real life for 6 months, much less a cyber fling of 2-3 months.
Be real. What are their incomes now? You offered to send them money to "go out." (By the way, who is "going out" now? I don't think you can "go out" in many parts of Canada, this is, a night out with dinner, drinks, dancing, a show, or whatever.) Sure, they might have turned down that offer right now.
But if (a big if) they were to move all the way from Canada to Australia to be with you, and assuming they have low incomes now, since they can't afford a night out, would you be considering letting them live with you rent free when they first came to a new country, with no jobs and not knowing anyone but you?
That's just one thing to consider.
Sure, if you want to wait a year or three until Covid is under control, just typing away and masturbating to these women who are survivors of (or still participating in?) incest, it's your right. But why? Why not go seek a healthy woman who won't be an emotional basketcase? Beware of White Knight syndrome. (Look that term up.) (Look up sugar daddy while you're at it.)
One more thing: you say you "love" these 2 women. You don't even know them. You won't know them until you've met irl and have dated for a year. And triads are hard to do. They are the hardest form of polyamory. It seems to me that, as a vanilla guy, you're taking on a world of trouble for very little guarantee of success.
