AzureKnight
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I'm hoping the collective wisdom here point me in a direction.
My former partner and I were together exclusively for about 20 years. During that time she had UTIs often, one was especially bad, having them monthly. Doctors were consulted and antibiotics were prescribed but causes weren't addressed, the docs seem to just say "women get UTIs" and not look any further.
I am dating someone new, and she started being impacted by UTIs even though she didn't have a history of them. The occurrence seems to follow pretty closely with our dates. They don't coincide with dates with her long time other partner.
I talked with my former partner and she commented that she hasn't had any over the the year we've been apart.
I'm now very concerned that I am a carrier for something that doesn't seem to impact me but is bad news for women. I'm up to date on my STD screens and there's nothing interesting there.
My former partner and I were together exclusively for about 20 years. During that time she had UTIs often, one was especially bad, having them monthly. Doctors were consulted and antibiotics were prescribed but causes weren't addressed, the docs seem to just say "women get UTIs" and not look any further.
I am dating someone new, and she started being impacted by UTIs even though she didn't have a history of them. The occurrence seems to follow pretty closely with our dates. They don't coincide with dates with her long time other partner.
I talked with my former partner and she commented that she hasn't had any over the the year we've been apart.
I'm now very concerned that I am a carrier for something that doesn't seem to impact me but is bad news for women. I'm up to date on my STD screens and there's nothing interesting there.
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