My marriage went Poly about 4 years ago, in that time my wife has had at least 5 short term relationships and I don't want to think about how many random partners, I have had a total of 7 dates in 4 years and they went nowhere. I get some of it, I'm mildly autistic, which makes me somewhat socially awkward, I have gotten so much better in the last couple years. No one seems to be able to give me any answers on why no one wants to so much as have dinner with me. In my local Poly community every woman is either just looking for other women or they are Polysaturated. I've tried all the dating site fetlife, face book and everywhere else. I can't even get advice, sympathy yes but no help. I'm tired of being left out, tired of spending weekends or longer alone when my wife goes off with this or that Boyfriend. I do my best to be supportive and happy for my wife, I can see how fulfilled she is because of shared love, I would never ask her to be less or to rein it in, but I want those feeling for me, I want to know affection from more than one source. maybe I just want to much from this?