BDSM discussion

I'm having coffee with a couple of the members of the BDSM support group tomorrow, and then we're planning on attending the meet and greet Friday night. Asha has agreed to go, though I'm still frightened that Sunday will react badly. I don't know quite how to tell him. :confused:

Anyway, I have a quick, silly question. I like it when Easy bites me. {blush} I have bruises, most of which are easy to hide, but some of them are on my neck. Anyone have advice for hiding them? I'm getting some flak for being "juvenile" because "only teenagers have hickies." I know I shouldn't listen, but I'm embarrassed. But don't get me wrong-- if it's a choice between giving it up or being embarrassed, I'll pick embarrassed any day. I just wonder if I can have my cake and eat it too.
 
Turtlenecks or scarves. I have never been able to cover hickies with makeup.
 
For all of you who know more about this than I do, I've seen a bunch of pictures where clothespins have been put on people pinching their skin. My question is doesn't that lead to lack of circulation and tissue death? How do you know how long you can leave them on for without them causing you to lose a nipple? (The nurse in me needs to know).
 
Derbylicious said:
For all of you who know more about this than I do, I've seen a bunch of pictures where clothespins have been put on people pinching their skin. My question is doesn't that lead to lack of circulation?
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Yes, that's the point. There's intense pleasure when they are taken off and blood flow returns.

How do you know how long you can leave them on for without them causing you to lose a nipple? (The nurse in me needs to know).
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20 minutes max.
 
Superjast said:
Blushing and embarassment is half the fun. :cool:
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How's your neck? Fully healed yet? Mine sure isn't. :p

I enjoy hickies, since we are on the topic. I love tearing into skin, biting especially sensitive spots like inner thighs and the neck. Unfortunately the neck is a spot that everyone sees. I don't know why or how this taboo got started about hickies, but they represent passion, lust and a good ole fucking to me. I usually see hickies and know that person has had a damn good time.

I know they aren't usually for public consumption, but I have a difficult time NOT giving them.
 
Rawr
 
Ariakas, nope, definitely not healed. I imagine the hickey on you might take a long time to leave. ;)

Derbylicious, Magdlyn is right. 20 minutes max. A lot depends on the type of clothespin, the tension, the air temperature vs body temperature, etc.
 
Superjast said:
Magdlyn is right, 20 minutes max. A lot depends on the type of clothespin, the tension, the air temperature vs body temperature, etc.
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Is there somewhere to go where you can learn all of this? I feel like I have a lot of really stupid questions!
 
I love to bite, and being bitten in certain spots sends me right over the edge.

No stupid questions, ladies. But if you really want to know, just start using google search. Find all sorts of scary shit doing that!!
 
Derbylicious said:
is there somewhere to go where you can learn all of this?
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With guinea pigs. lol

When I first learned, I was taught by a creepy old Dom, who saw me working a whip and thought I`d make a great Domina. So everything was trial and error, and personal notes that I made along the way.

Some of the newer fetishes I research online, but the old school stuff was trial/error and word of mouth.
 
I'm hoping we're not talking the animal here! I think RP would be even less comfortable with me putting clothespins on her little pet than she would with me putting them on her!
 
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