Professa’sPet
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Hi, i’m in need of ADVICE! I am currently in a “submissive/dom switch” with my partner/friend (I am usually sub about 90% of the time) whom I nicknamed “Proffesa/Professor”for almost a year now. We have had alot of fun with other girls this last year and even had another girl once that we wanted to be apart of our group, but it wasnt for her. We agreed and decided in the beginning that I would only play with him (and other girls as long as he was present), he is welcome to play with others without me (my only request was that i be informed before sexual act and he would inform other girl of me and i would want to say hi to them weather it be in person or over the phone. I have not felt jealousy until recently. He informed me of a new girl and i got excited thinking he found someone new for us to play with, but he took my excited as “jelousy” and i thought it was so odd, so i started to think that maybe there was something to be jelous about, days later he informed me that she didnt even know about me yet and he also didnt know if she was bisexual (weeks later he informed me she said she wasnt into “sharing” while she is with him) I felt so excluded and made a bit of a fuss about it. Since then he has nicknamed her and gave her the title of “Professor’s little Slut” without even talking to me about it, he did re-assure me that he would tell me he was going to be sexual with her before he did so. Later he came home one day and said he had sexual relations with her a few days prior and he decided he didnt want to tell me about it before hand. He also showed me a pic that showing the new “dog-tags” She bought herself with “Professor’s Little Slut” engraved on them (Personally i feel like she has not “earned”those tags, i dont know her, i have fears that she is trying to “replace me” which i do honestly have past issues with from past partners. To be honest I feel insulted that she claims to be a “sub” and buy herself tags with “Professor” on it when it is the nickname I gave him and yet she doesn't even want to include me.
I felt we have always been a team, but recently fears are strong on both sides and even though it is obvious the communication between us is Majorly lacking! We are still too scared to have the “conversation”.
additional info:
We do live together, although since new job he is gone for work during the week (the new girl is up by where he works.)
I felt we have always been a team, but recently fears are strong on both sides and even though it is obvious the communication between us is Majorly lacking! We are still too scared to have the “conversation”.
additional info:
We do live together, although since new job he is gone for work during the week (the new girl is up by where he works.)